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Fun Ways to Integrate Chastity Belts in the Bedroom

picture of a metal chastity belt and a resin chastity cage which are commonly used in the bedroom

Chastity is a fetish commonly associated with BDSM and is a unique way to make things in the bedroom more interesting. Chastity uses chastity devices, most commonly chastity cages and chastity belts, to restrict access to the wearer's genitals and prevent them from engaging in sexual activity. In this article we will talk about chastity in general, what chastity belts are and how you can use them to spice up your sex life.

What is chastity?

Whether you use a chastity belt or a chastity cage, the main goal is to lock up the wearer to discourage erections and prevent them from having sex and masturbating. Some people may find this idea insane, but people into domination and submission can’t get enough of it. Chastity gives BDSM enjoyers a unique form of power: Once the cage or belt is locked, the sub relinquishes all control over their sex life and hands it to their keyholder.

Differences between chastity cages and chastity belts

Chastity cages and chastity belts are the two most popular chastity devices to choose from. Let’s talk about how they are different and why you would want to use a chastity belt over a chastity cage.

Ease of Access

Chastity cages are easier to put on and more convenient to wear thanks to their small design. To assemble a chastity cage all you need to do is pass your genitals through the base ring, attach the cage to the base ring with your penis inside of it and then use whatever locking mechanism the cage has to lock it. This can be done quickly once you get used to putting yourself in chastity but beginners may take longer with putting the base ring on and then attaching the cage afterwards.

Chastity belts are comparatively a lot more complicated than chastity cages. They are worn around the waist and use leg straps to hold the chastity belt in place. Depending on the design, it can take a lot longer to properly assemble your chastity belt. While this sounds like it would be smarter to get a chastity cage, there are advantages to getting a chastity belt.


Chastity cages come in different materials such as metal, resin and silicone, with 3D printed cages available too. There is also a wide range of cage designs to choose from, including novelty cages.

Chastity belts are quite customisable, as any chastity cage design can theoretically also be used for a chastity belt that uses a cage. Some chastity belts will use flat metal plates or sealed pouches to restrict access, which some may find more appealing than a cage. Chastity belts can also support the use of an attachable butt plug.

Visual Appeal

Chastity cages and chastity belts look completely different which means that there’s something for everyone. 

Chastity cages are smaller and lightweight in comparison, great for people who are going for a softer look overall. They are also easier to match with outfits due to being smaller and coming in a wide variety of colours.

Chastity belts are bulkier and more visually striking than cages, which some doms will prefer. Chastity belts can be used to create a bold aesthetic when paired with accessories made with the same material, such as stainless steel or faux leather.

How to use chastity belts in the bedroom

Here are some examples of how you can use chastity belts to enhance your sex life:

  • Using a chastity belt to enhance the domination and submission aspects of a BDSM session
  • Using a chastity belt before sex to sexually frustrate the wearer, enhancing how submissive they are
  • Using a chastity belt with a plug attached, either to pleasure the wearer or to deny them from engaging in all types of sexual activities
  • Using a chastity belt to play different chastity games with your partner


Chastity belts are a popular type of chastity device, used to lock the wearer in chastity and prevent them from engaging in various sexual activities. They are made in varying materials such as stainless steel, silicone and faux leather. Chastity belts are primarily used by people into domination and submission due to the unique form of control the keyholder is given over the wearer.